How to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energies

Human beings are complex, extraordinary, and enigmatic beings. Everything in our world, including people and things, offers different energetic vibrations, which include masculine and feminine energies. Each offers different experiences and feelings. And when they are balanced, it allows you to live your life to the absolute fullest according to your most authentic form.

Read on to learn more about these different energies, what they can offer your life, and how to balance them.

Masculine and Feminine Energy

Inside all of us exists two divergent energies: masculine and feminine energy. It is important to note that despite their binary names, neither is actually determined by one's biological sex. They coexist inside everyone. However, for most people, either feminine or masculine energy is dominant. 

While one tends to be stronger, to achieve a glorious, happy life is to balance both the masculine and feminine energy. When the masculine and feminine energy is in sync and balanced, the man or woman tends to put out an attractive energy to the world. This can rouse the interest of many friends and personal satisfaction in different areas of life. 

Finding harmony between masculine and feminine energy can transpire in several ways. For example, a man who is ambitious and thriving at work but is open about his emotions and free to cry. 

To find this symbiosis for men and women, one must turn inwards to determine their dominant energy and work to incorporate opposite characteristics.

What is Masculine Energy?

Divine, masculine energy is stable, consistent, and predictable. Males or females with more dominant masculine energy demonstrate the following traits:

• Strong willpower 

• Focus 

• Transparency

• Strength

• Firmness 

• Logical 

• Clarity

• Survival 

• Rule-follower 

• Problem solver

• Organized 

• Independent

What is Feminine Energy?

Ah, divine feminine energy. This energy is more fluid, changing, and open. Males or females with more dominant female energy demonstrate the following traits:

• Opportunist 

• Creative 

• Adaptable 

• Strong intuition 

• Nurturing

• Deeply loving 

• Feels emotions deeply 

• Free and open 

• Community

• Compassion 

• Understanding 

• Softness

What does it mean to balance feminine and masculine energy?

Frustratingly, society has deep-rooted ideas about how men or women “should” act. From day one, boys are often told to suppress their emotions, and women are put in an overly nurturing role. Who made these rules, anyway!? 

The goal is to discover your natural strengths and lean into them. If you are someone who connects and has more dominant feminine energy, this is a great thing. There is nothing wrong with being empathetic, free-spirited, and creative. 

Oppositely, should you resonate more clearly with stronger masculine strength energy, it’s a beautiful thing to be logical, organized, and independent. Start by actively rejecting what society has forced us to believe about how men and women should act. You are wonderful, just the way you are. 
Whatever energy comes naturally to you, whether masculine or feminine, is an intrinsic part of you that you should be proud of. It doesn't need to be worked on much more. Instead, you can work towards building up your less dominant energy to cultivate a better balance of the two.

For example, if you have more masculine energy, lean into the feminine energy by doing some of the following activities: 

• Connect, listen, and express your emotions in a safe space 

• Ask for help from others 

• Start a self-care routine 

• Spend time with people who have feminine energy 

• Journal and reflect

If you have a more feminine energy, lean into your masculine energy by doing the following:

• Make a plan, set goals, and complete them

• Try boxing or martial arts 

• Be direct with people through honest conversation 

• Get outside and use your hands with a new project, such as gardening

By balancing the two energies, you will resonate with more people: men, women, and non-binary. You will be able to communicate and express yourself and be heard and seen by everyone.  

Balancing your energies is a very important practice, particularly for romantic partnerships. It can support more transparent communication, greater empathy, and, ultimately, longer-lasting love.  

Conclusion

Are you curious to learn more about what energy you are dominant in and learn more about masculine vs. feminine energy? Turn to me, Gareth Michael, for personalized spiritual life coaching and learn to align your energy. Contact me today to start raising your vibrations and connecting deeper to your spiritual side!